Please Try to Understand Me...!

 

How fluent life could be if people understands you without doubting. But this is a rare emotion specially when it comes to the relationship between parents and their child. 

Understanding, if we go with a simple definition via Google, is sympathetically aware of other people's feelings, tolerant, forgiving and having insight or good judgement.

Understanding is really important in any relationship rather it can said to be the root of any relationship. Understanding is what makes a strong bond and a trustworthy relationship. 

"Please try to Understand me" is really a common phrase being used by people when they fail to explain or express them. It is much easier to make others understand so easily but not your people sometimes. It is easier to make your friend's father understand that we are working online through some social media on a project but really hard to make understand your own father the same stuff. I would like you not to take it personally because not all relationships are same, and not all people have the same level of understanding or mutual understanding. But most of the parents and their children fails to know and understand each other. 

Most of the time it's not like I lose confidence or I was not able to convince people and that's why they misunderstood me but I just didn't wanted to explain. It's more worthy to let the things go sometimes. It can be called a level to Maturity but this maturity need to be shown timely and according to the situations.

Their is always a rift between parents and their child. It can be better termed as generation gap or communication gap.Communication is really important and if it lacks, things will definitely go worse. It is frustrating when you're taunted for the things which you know are right but don't wanna explain them to others just because you know it will going to be in vain. 

Understanding can be more better in a relationship if the people involved know each other very well. Personally, My parents know that I can cook good food, I do have interest in Media and Journalism, They know my college preferences and freely allowed me to choose my career and colleges. 

But what they don't know is- I write, when I can't speak. I do crafting when I feel low or negative. I listen to music when a don't want to listen other's shit. I dance in a shut room, when I want to get rid of my irritation and heaviness of mind or heart. They don't know the inner me, that's why fails to understand my work, my things and my Life. 

But as I have grown up, things are becoming a bit easier but still that rift is never gonna fill with more love and ofcorse more better Understanding.

If you don't understand me, its okay, I have stopped saying "Please Try to Understand Me."