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Are you DEPENDENT for being INDEPENDENT...?

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  Image source: Google Hey, The Free Spirits! You all must be doing Great, Right? Like am also kind of free these days, doing stuffs to make myself busy. Eventually just doing things to pass this hard time...Including things from cleansing, dusting to cooking, photography, some drawings, and somethings I love. Some day, I just lost in some thoughts, that were constantly hitting my mind and bothering me again and again. I was somewhere tangled in the meaning and definitions of being Independent. I really don't get what  hits in a person's mind when they think of being Independent. Do you really think getting a good job, earning money, having a home of your own, living with your friends apart of your family is your Independence, is the only freedom you ever wanted in your life. Yes, it may be some kind of independence, unless you are dependent on anyone for your happiness, moods, emotions, or for being the healer of your pain . It may be little disputable for some pe...

Let's End..... #expectations....

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Life is so colourful that you can't even realize when it changed.. Every moment you lived was different from other and you even can't do oracles...  I really don't like when people expect.. not from them but from others.. I am in a kind of situation where things are becoming too heavy to carry that sometimes I feel useless and indigent...  End of expectations leads to Reality and people must think of it..  It really happens that sometimes we need to exaggerate things at the level so that people can't see our real face...  What happen if people would know who in real we are.. They would start hating us or they will simply ignore you after passing some useless comments...Would that make us inferior or worthless.. If yess, then we are really weak from inside and every time we can't make everyone happy or we just can't do everything according to others.. If something is against your will and wish and you seriously know what is right and wrong then go wit...

POWER OF MAKING WRONG DECISIONS IN LIFE

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Have you ever take wrong decisions in Life? Have you ever fall in love with the wrong person in Life? Have you ever done some big wrong investment in something? No, I am just asking because I have taken so many wrong decisions in life from choosing wrong slippers for myself to choosing the subjects of Class 12. Because that time I was not aware of right and wrong... Or their was no one to guide for the right. So I just wanted to know, Are you that Mr. Right who never took wrong decisions or just the person who really took lessons from what you did wrong.. See, taking decisions is a very big deal and if you know some  person who is able to take right decisions, he have learnt a lot from his life. When we are supposed to take some sort of decisions, we just see the present of that situations...Sometimes, it is important to do instant things but what about those life long decisions which can make or ruin your life. Yes, I fell for the wrong person but that does not mean I am...

Judgemental Hai Kya ??

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I never like when people judge me...Am not in a competition where you are supposed to give me marks on my performance…I wonder why people really judge. No, what do they really get. What if I have male friends, would that mean I am characterless...What if I don’t like to be too social with people, would that mean that am introvert and insane…I always love to spend more time with self. I love to do things my way. I don’t like being enrolled in shitty chit chat where you will never know that who is on your side… What I have experienced is, people live according to their situations and circumstances and one never know what is going inside a person, so how could you judge somebody without knowing them completely…   See, these things are never gonna change…People will see the way they used to, Bcz it’s how they live their lives. No matter what your kids are doing but people are more interested in knowing what wrong other’s have done, because they are the journalists of ...

Lets Begin with NO TITLE but a QUESTION

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What happen if the adults of the society would not fire crackers...  Jyada se jyada itna ho skta hai ki Environment thoda kam pollute hoga... But who cares, hum to khud bhi sbse tez aawaz waale crackers laenge kyuki "Jamin se Aasmaan tak".... Sbko pta chalna chahiye ki Diwali to asli hum hi mna rhe hai bhai... Swag hai apna...  Tum log bas Deepak jalate reh jaana... Humein thodi divinity chahiye... We are happy with..... With what???..... Arrey, with everything that would pollute our Environment... Ek hi baar to aati hai Diwali... Aisa bilkul nahi hai ki main Diwali k tym pe post likh rahi hu to mujhe iss occasion se dikkat hai... Bs sacchai yahi hai ki thoda sochna to banta hai... soch to bhut lia...Bhut vichaar kiya ab kuch accha kaam bhi kr lete hai. Aur vaise bhi sbke ghar mithai to bhijwai hai...Ab to khelenge bs...Dk cahr din pehle si shuru kr denge...Arre China ki economy bdhane ka jimma hmare sir pe hi to hai..Fhuljhadi aur eco friendly pathko se khelne...

LIFE GOES ONN

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Actually I m so free these days but I really don't have time to chit chat with my friends. They always ask me why don't I reply to their messages and I stand speechless every time because I am not even interested to answer them the same... But I can tell you because I trust your mentality.. The point is very logical and simple, it irritates me one someone do some backbiting kind of things. Why do I invest my precious time and my clean and purify mind, yess... My purify and clean mind into such useless conversations. We give priority to the people who are worthy to us... Who really care for us... Ohh what m saying.. Seriously no one cares for us expect a few people in our life.. We really love some people but we don't hate the people we don't love and we are no one to hurt the person we love or even to the one we don't love. It's all a beautiful battle of our mind and our heart... Think why do we fall in love with the one whom we even never wanted t...

भारतीय संस्कृति में फैशन 

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फैशन अर्थात भीड़ से अलग दिखने का प्रयास। भारतीय सांस्कृतिक परिधान और संस्कृति दोनों ही स्वयं में सर्वश्रेष्ठ फैशन है। भारतीय संस्कृति में सादगी और संस्कारित व्यवहार औरों से अलग दिखाता है यही फैशन है। अपने अंतरंग को संवारना मलीनता को धोना ही हमारा फैशन हैै। भारतीय संस्कृति को बेहतर ढंग से रोज़मर्रा में जो भी मुमकिन है उसे अपनाना वियोग कर रचनात्मक बनाना ही फैशन है। इससे अपनापन भी रहता है और सुंदर भी दिखा जाता है। हर दौर अपने साथ एक चलन लेकर आता है जिसे हम फैशन का नाम दे देते है। लेकिन न तो फैशन को आधुनिकता का पर्याय माना जा सकता और न ही इसकी अंधी लहर में बहना उचित है। फैशन के पनपने में सांस्कृतिक पृष्ठभूमि भी अपनी भूमिका अदा करती है। कोई भी फैशन तभी पनपता है जब सामाजिक मूल्य उसके पक्ष में हो। मनोवैज्ञानिकों का निष्कर्श है कि सांस्कृतिक प्रतिमान के रूप में फैशन एक प्रकार का ऐसा सामाजिक संस्कार है जिसके संबंध में आशा की जाती है कि लोग उसका निर्वाह करेंगे। यदि हम अपने सामाजिक व्यवहार पर गौर करें तो पाएगे कि हमारा अधिकांश व्यवहार फैशन पर ही आधारित है। चाहे वह व्यवहार केश सज्जा के सं...